Ten Tips on Being a Good Husband

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By Ikram Ullah

There are on average about one million new marriages in the United States every year. So, chances are, you know a few good husbands from your own circle of friends. And you know what? They’re not all bad! Some of them are pretty great. So, if you’re a good husband, you know what it’s like to put up with your significant other’s quirks. But you also know what it’s like to be a good husband. If you’re looking to be a better spouse and husband, you’re in the right place. The good news is that being a good husband doesn’t have to be difficult at all. You just need to put in a little bit of effort. Here are some tips on being a good husband.

 Be understanding and flexible

The first thing you need to do is be understanding and flexible. Your partner will have his or her own issues, and you need to be open to how he or she handles those. When you go into this relationship with an open mind, it will make things easier for both of you. And speaking of being open-minded, the next tip is to learn about your partner. If you take the time to learn their likes and dislikes, they’ll feel more comfortable opening up to you.

Show your love and respect

A good husband shows his love and respect every day. He shows this by being there for her, by respecting her wishes, and by putting her above himself at all times. He also makes sure that he treats her with dignity and kindness.

Another important thing to keep in mind is that a good husband always speaks kindly to his wife. If she says something hurtful or if she does something wrong, he doesn’t say anything back in anger. He speaks kindly and tries to offer some words of support instead of pointing out the mistake she made.

Show your affection in subtle ways

If you want to be a good husband, never underestimate the power of a touch. A simple caress can make someone feel cared for and loved. This is because the physical contact helps reassure the person that he or she is safe and cared for. If you want to show your affection, try giving your significant other a quick hand-holding session every now and then. You don’t have to hold hands all the time, but it’s important not to neglect this connection in your relationship. It’s also important not to get caught up in the things you do together. Don’t focus on what you need to do in order to be a good husband; instead, focus on what will make your partner happy.

Communicate your needs and desires

It’s important to talk about your needs and desires. In fact, one of the best ways to be a good husband is by communicating your needs and desires to your significant other. Let them know what you need from them so that you can have a healthy relationship. It doesn’t matter if it’s in the form of words, touching, or gestures. If you can find a way to communicate your needs and desires, then you have a better chance at being a good husband yourself.

 Learn to say “no”

You’re not just your wife’s husband. You’re also the father of her children, too! Sometimes it can be hard to say “no,” but you have to do it sometimes. As a husband, you should be able to say “no” without looking like a jerk.

Don’t be a doormat, advocate for yourself and be strong

It’s no secret that men get a bad rap. They’re told to be tough and dominant, but they also are expected to put up with the nonsense of their wife, who is often perceived as the emotional one in the relationship. The truth is, we all have different strengths and weaknesses. It doesn’t make you any less of a man if you’re emotional or sensitive or thin-skinned or kind. You are a good husband and husband because of your personality traits and not in spite of them.


A husband has many roles to fulfill. He is the head of the household, the breadwinner, and the provider. Yet his most important role is that of protector and provider of advice. Here are ten tips on being a good husband.

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